Relationship & dating coaching · couples and individuals
Stuck in your relationship, or with yourself?
For couples and individuals. Warm, direct support with relationships, dating, infidelity and separation.
For couples and individuals. Warm support with relationships, dating, infidelity and separation.
- No obligationFirst intro call free
- Within 24 hoursA personal reply
- NL & ENExpat-friendly
- Future-focusedWorking on what you want to achieve
Where you can turn
For couples and individuals. The intro call is free, rates are on the contact page.
Relationship coaching for couples
You talk past each other or keep hitting the same conflicts. Together we work on new patterns.
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Individual coaching
Breaking patterns, learning to set boundaries, or finding yourself again.
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Dating coaching for singles
The same types again, the same pattern again? We look at why, and how you break it.
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After infidelity
Infidelity breaks trust. I help you through this difficult process, with honesty and steadiness.
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Separation support
Whether you're still unsure or have already decided, I help you do this with respect, especially with children.
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Improving communication
Good communication is the basis of every healthy relationship. Learn to speak clearly and truly listen.
Learn moreNo leap in the dark
The unfamiliar makes us uneasy. Know in advance how the process unfolds, starting with a free intro call.
Session 1: Getting to know each other and mapping the pattern
We talk or email briefly, you tell me what's going on, I explain how I work. Together we map what keeps repeating, between you, or within yourself.
Sessions 2-3: Practising responding differently
Concrete conversations about what you want to do differently. Not to assign blame, but to learn how to handle it better. You practise, you notice what works.
Sessions 4-6: Anchoring the new behaviour
What began in session you carry into daily life. Small changes, reflection between sessions, and room to get used to the new behaviour.
Sessions in Dutch or English, from a location of your choosing. No travel time, with the same attention and confidentiality. All you need is a quiet room and a stable internet connection.
I'd been carrying a feeling for months that something needed to change. After three sessions, I knew exactly what it was and what I could do about it.
Anna M., after 3 sessions of individual coaching
Good to know beforehand
Another question? Feel free to reach out, I'm here to help.
Is this a form of healthcare?
No. Relationship coaching is not healthcare: no diagnosis, no medical file, no referral needed.
How many sessions do I need?
It depends on your situation and goal. A well-defined question often calls for a short trajectory; something deeper takes a bit more time. You're never locked in, we set a direction together and evaluate along the way.
Can I come on my own?
Yes. You can come as a couple, but just as well on your own, whether your partner won't join, you're single, or you simply want to work on yourself.
Is dating coaching also for people who aren't actively dating?
Yes, absolutely. You don't need to be on dating apps to work on yourself. Many people come precisely to understand why things keep going wrong, or to process that something "was never official" but still hurt. Even if you've just come out of a situation where you felt stuck, whether it was a situationship , a near-relationship, or a recurring pattern, I can help you look at that honestly.