Couples therapy & coaching · couples and individuals
Stuck in your relationship, or with yourself?
For couples and for you: couples therapy and individual coaching. Warm, direct support with relationships, dating, infidelity and separation.
Couples therapy and individual coaching. Warm support with relationships, dating, infidelity and separation.
- No obligationFirst intro call free
- Within 24 hoursA personal reply
- NL & ENExpat-friendly
- Future-focusedWorking on what you want to achieve
How can I help?
For couples and individuals. The intro call is free, see our rates.
Couples therapy
You talk past each other or keep hitting the same conflicts. Together we work on new patterns.
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Individual coaching
Breaking patterns, learning to set boundaries, or finding yourself again.
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Dating coaching for singles
The same types again, the same pattern again? We look at why, and how you break it.
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Couples therapy after infidelity
Infidelity breaks trust. I help you through this difficult process, with honesty and steadiness.
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Separation support
Whether you're still unsure or have already decided, I help you do this with respect, especially with children.
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Relationship communication
Good communication is the basis of every healthy relationship. Learn to speak clearly and truly listen.
Learn moreNo leap in the dark
The unfamiliar makes us uneasy. So I'll tell you in advance exactly how the process works, starting with a free intro call. I work warm, practical and direct. No endless trajectory, but real steps you feel right away.
Session 1: Getting to know each other and mapping the pattern
We talk or email briefly, you tell me what's going on, I explain how I work. Together we map what keeps repeating, between you, or within yourself.
Sessions 2-3: Practising responding differently
Concrete conversations about what you want to do differently. Not to assign blame, but to learn how to handle it better. You practise, you notice what works.
Sessions 4-6: Anchoring the new behaviour
What we've worked on, you carry into daily life. Small changes, reflection, and room to get used to the new behaviour.
How a session can happen
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Session at the practice
At my practice in Uithoorn. A quiet room, away from the noise, where you do not have to prove anything for a while.
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Session on location
I come to you: at your home or another place that suits you. Useful when travelling is not an option right now.
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Online session
By video, from a place of your choosing. No travel time, with the same attention and confidentiality.
I'd been carrying a feeling for months that something needed to change. After three sessions, I knew exactly what it was and what I could do about it.
Anna M., after 3 sessions of individual coaching
Good to know beforehand
Another question? Feel free to reach out, I'm here to help.
How many sessions do I need?
It depends on your situation and goal. A well-defined question often calls for a short process; something deeper takes a bit more time. You're never locked in, we set a direction together and evaluate along the way.
Can I come on my own?
Yes. You can come as a couple, but just as well on your own, whether your partner won't join, you're single, or you simply want to work on yourself.