English-speaking couples therapy in Amsterdam
Looking for couples therapy or individual coaching from Amsterdam? I see clients from across the city: at your home, on location in Amsterdam, online via video, or at my practice in Uithoorn, a twenty-to-thirty-minute drive south. Sessions in Dutch or English.
Iris Schotsman · certified relationship coach since 2018 · SNRO accredited training
A step outside the city
Amsterdam moves fast, and a relationship rarely gets quiet attention in the middle of that. Many clients from the city find it helps to step out of it for an hour. My practice in Uithoorn sits a short drive south, far enough that the noise drops away, close enough to reach easily after work.
If a trip across town doesn't fit your week, online sessions via video are a full alternative. Same attention, same confidentiality, you only need a quiet room where you won't be interrupted.
At home or on location in Amsterdam
Travelling to Uithoorn doesn't always fit a busy Amsterdam week. So I also come to your home, or we meet at a quiet location in the city. That keeps the threshold low, even when you have little time between work and other commitments.
Prefer to come to the practice instead? The drive from central Amsterdam takes twenty to thirty minutes, and there's ample free parking right outside in Uithoorn.
Sessions in English, for expats and internationals
Amsterdam is an international city, and not every couple shares a first language, or a first culture. I coach in both Dutch and English, and I'm used to working with expats and mixed-nationality couples building a life here.
That matters, because language and culture shape how you argue, how you show care, and what stays unsaid. We can work in the language you feel most at home in.
Living far from family and your usual support network puts strain on a relationship. So does relocating for your partner's work, or dating in a culture and language that aren't your own. These are the situations I work with most with internationals.
In person in the Amsterdam area, or online anywhere in the world — whichever fits the life you're building.
How I can help
Wherever you are right now, there's a place to start. Together as a couple, this is coaching for couples. Single and finding dating heavy, or stuck in the same pattern? Dating coaching for singles looks at what sits underneath it. And if you'd rather work on yourself first, with or without a partner alongside, that's individual coaching.
You can read more about your coach, Iris, or see pricing and the free intro call.
Starting from Amsterdam
It begins with a free, no-obligation call of around 15 minutes. We get a sense of what's going on and whether it clicks, before you travel anywhere or commit to anything. From there we choose what works for you: the practice in Uithoorn, online, or on location in Amsterdam.
Follow-up sessions last 90 minutes — enough time to settle in and go properly into a theme. We decide on frequency together: weekly, every two weeks, or another interval that fits your rhythm.
Good to know
I work as a certified relationship coach (trained at Sonnevelt, an SNRO-accredited programme): practical and forward-looking, with no waiting list and no referral needed. If something heavier calls for clinical care, I'll say so honestly and help you find the right place.
How a session can happen
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Session on location
I come to you: at your home or another place that suits you. Useful when travelling is not an option right now.
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Online session
By video, from a place of your choosing. No travel time, with the same attention and confidentiality.
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Session at the practice
At my practice in Uithoorn. A quiet room, away from the noise, where you do not have to prove anything for a while.
Location
Noorse Lijster 12, 1423 RZ Uithoorn
Get directionsReady to get started?
Schedule a free intro call and discover whether couples therapy is right for you.